Friday, April 22, 2011

Being a tourist of your own life

I have just returned from a truly wonderful adventure in North America. For a time we were in the Adirondacks in upstate New York, and much to my joy and amazement, we were in knee deep and fresh falling snow in April! It was such a magic, secluded and beautiful place that I proposed to my partner, Julian, right there in the middle of all that snow. He said...YES!
Happily, we are now engaged. And returned home. 
And herein lies my challenge...


Being back has made me recognise how expansive, adventurous and attuned to the positive I am when I travel. When 'real life' sets in it can be hard to maintain the effortless joy that comes with travel. The challenge I have set myself is to be like a tourist in my own life. In other words, to walk around with fresh wonder and wide-eyed amazement. 

I am happy to report that so far this has worked a treat. As the days pass though I feel myself closing up little by little and I must keep reminding myself of the feeling of being awake to the possibility of what life might bring.

When we are away from our normal daily routine, especially when we are travelling, we are alive with anticipation of what each day might bring. When we get home, we fall into a well trodden routine, closed off, bored even and unaware of the possibility that is all around.

I have set myself the task of being awed by my life, by my home, my environment as though I was seeing it all for the very first time, of feeling like a bold adventurer in the day to day. And the best part - no ridiculous airfares and overpriced hotels!

Bon voyage fellow travellers!

5 comments:

  1. Congratulations you deserve wide eyed happiness and love

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  2. I love that! Being the eternal traveller in life and viewing all with awe and wonder :-) Big congrats to you as well Ricci-Jane xo

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  3. Ha, Alive with the anticipation that my children may crack it any moment and refuse to walk in the knee deep snow.

    Congrats, lovin my rings too.

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  4. Firstly, Congratulations to a lovely threesome! And now a question, does being a tourist in my own life mean I can sit by the beach with a jug of Tequila Sunrise everyday?

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